And because of that we unconsciously repeat the same parenting patterns as our parents did even though we promise ourselves that we won’t parent our child(ren) the same way as our parents did. For most of us, our parents or caregivers did not provide us a secure attachment resulting in “power over” or “power under” parenting. You see, this kind of parenting creates conflicts, frustration, shame, guilt and leaves us in powerlessness and disconnected from our child(ren).
When we parent our child(ren) without resolving our childhood wounds and without understanding our childhood history, it’s more likely that we will pass those wounds to our child(ren), no matter how badly we want it to be different.
Transformation
Resolve your childhood wounds to create a new narrative to empower your parenting
Create a relationship with your children based on trust, connection and collaboration
Experience peace, harmony and mutual understanding with your children
No matter what your relationship with your child(ren) looks like right now, there is hope.
Depending on where things are at, it can be hard to believe there is truly another way. But I promise you there is. It’s not an easy path but your commitment for positive change will pay off and everybody will notice your phenomenal transformation.
Consciously, we want the best for our children and plan accordingly to make that happen. Unfortunately, all of these plans fall through when we operate on autopilot (aka habit) and that's what occupies our mind 95% of the time. It’s time to be aware of our habits and make the necessary changes to be the parent that our kids need.
I became a parenting coach because I knew in my heart that parenting is so much more than offering our kids shelter, food, clothes and all the rest of it. Not only that, but have you noticed that we weren't loved for who we are ? This causes trauma in our child(ren) and no one talks about that. I didn’t want that for my child so I knew I had to stop this generational trauma now.
Once I learned that there is a gentle way to raise our kids, I promised to myself that I will help as many parents as I can to support them in this new process which seems counter-intuitive at first but you will learn that it is not.
I believe all children deserve to be loved for who they are and to be understood.
I know that you want to be a loving, peaceful parent that has a meaningful connection with your children. In order to do that you need to change your narrative about parenting.
It makes you feel like you’re not doing a good job.
But that's not the truth.
I believe that the real issue is that we’re not taught how to be the kind of parents most of us long to be so we end up slipping into the patterns that were ingrained in us in our own childhoods.
Which is why when you contact me, you will be met with understanding, a non-judgemental openness and a supportive, personalized, effective plan that I will personally guide you through every step of the way.
When you book a call with me, we’ll sit down together and talk so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.
I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.
If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started. If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible. There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see if we are a good fit to work together.
So that you can stop blaming yourself.
And instead take the first step towards becoming the kind of parent you know you can be.